Donor Spotlight: Patricia Graleski
“I wanted to give back to someone who did something good for me.”
These are the words of Patricia Graleski – a New Jersey native and the newest member of the Kean University Foundation’s Medallion Society. Born in Jersey City, Patricia is the oldest child of two deaf parents, neither of whom graduated high school and spent their adult lives as unskilled laborers. These circumstances created some of her earliest memories, with her acting as translator for both parents while accompanying them on frequent trips to the unemployment office. Given their background, Patricia’s parents often found themselves out of work during periods of economic downturns throughout the 1950’s.
Such experiences instilled in Patricia a great desire to obtain a college degree. She knew her parents would be unable to support her goal financially, but saw the value in pursuing higher education and set her sights on achieving academic excellence in an effort to earn a scholarship. “From second grade on,” said Patricia, “I promised myself I would be going to college.”
Patricia’s family eventually moved to the suburban town of Morganville, where she attended Freehold High School and was classmate to a little-known (at the time!) guitarist by the name of Bruce Springsteen. There, she maintained her studies and remained focused on the promise she had made to herself many years earlier. Patricia completed SAT testing, as well as an additional test administered by the State of New Jersey. She performed very well, and her scores resulted in Patricia being awarded a full scholarship to Newark State Teachers College – which had just relocated from Newark to Union.
When Patricia’s acceptance letter arrived in the mail, her father told her, “You are not going to college; you should be a secretary or a teacher or a nurse. As a matter of fact, this scholarship would be better suited for a man and, most importantly, we need you to work as your salary pays for room and board in our house.”
For several years thereafter, Patricia worked for IBM in various locations, including Holmdel, NJ, Baltimore, MD, and Atlanta, GA. She initially performed secretarial and administrative work before being promoted to Systems Engineer and eventually moving into a sales role. IBM recognized Patricia’s talents and she found success there.
In 1992, the recession caught up with Patricia and she, like many others at the time, found herself out of work and unable to gain new employment without a college degree. She eventually acquired a position within the School of Nursing at the University of Maryland located in Baltimore, where she worked for a period of time before further economic downturns resulted in unemployment yet again.
One day, Patricia received a letter in the mail from the Governor of Maryland. This letter informed her, as a result of having been downsized twice from her places of employment, Patricia was eligible to receive a Pell Grant affording her the ability to attend college. At last, Patricia would be able to earn the college degree she had longed for ever since childhood – and she did just that! A woman already in her 50s, she went on to earn a Bachelor of Science Degree in Business Administration from the University of Maryland, having achieved a 3.5 GPA and subsequently graduating with honors.
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